I recently purchased a Diva 2 cup. I’m 37, have had 2 children, and a pretty heavy flow. I have tried numerous different folds and insertions, but I cannot get the cup to not leak. A few times I was pretty certain I felt the pop, but still there was leaking. I decided to finally check to see where my cervix is. I cannot find it. I’m very tall (6′) and I have long fingers, but even inserting my middle finger all the way up, I could not find my cervix. Am I missing it, or is it possible that it’s so high I can’t feel it? I really want to love using a cup, but so far the Diva hasn’t worked for me at all.